Thanks for trying Shaggy. I googled and googled also. Sent a couple of emails and both people said she isn't in business anymore. So I guess it is down to someone having the pattern that feels Ok about sharing.
Shari, I'm sure you meant "resell" the pattern to you, without keeping a copy. Honestly not a good idea to ask someone to "share" a pattern, unless you have the designer's permission. Good idea to read Clara's post at this link Rosi, gently reminding